This is just my opinion.
It is not meant for everyone or every situation but for the people I am trying to help right now, they may find it useful.
If we could all just step back and clear our minds of all the garbage that has been dumped into them. Life could and should be full and happy.
TOP TEN HAPPY LIFE LIST
My reality has shown me that:
1 Everyone is unique no one will agree on everything
IT IS OK
2 You are in control of yourself
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
3 Respect others
CHOICES LEAD TO RESULTS GOOD AND BAD
4 We are all still learning
LIVING IS THE ONLY WAY TO LEARN
5 Other people can only change when they want to
LET THEM BE
6 Reactions can be controlled
STOP THINK AND BE KIND
7 Opinions are not facts we can't say what is right or wrong for others.
8 Surround yourself with people you respect and enjoy.
9 True love is unconditional, unearned and rare nowdays.
10 Respect is taught and earned and can be positive or negative.
Each person should have the right to be free. We need to live and let live. That is why when you love someone you may have to let them go. Without respect your relationship will be ugly. This took me forever and I still confuse love and respect with each other.
Laws are in place to ensure that no one gets to out of line so people don't need to judge each other. There are actually too many laws and a lot of people who are also trying to correct that.